10 Things You DON’T say before the BIG TOURNAMENT

Maybe you don’t believe in a jinx, karma, hexes or other supernatural unexplained phenomenon that may guide the rules of the earth.

But here’s something we can all agree on. You don’t say “Gee, we haven’t had very many injuries this season,” Before a big tournament. Why? Maybe it was just coincidence that two players mysteriously get hurt after uttering such a statement… hypothetically.

So here are the Top Ten things Not to say before a National Championship

1.  We haven’t had many injuries this season.

2Our bats are hot.

3.  We’ve never given up a no hitter.

4.  Our pitchers hardly ever give up home runs.

5.  My kid never gets sick / injured.

6.  We’ll be fine with 11 players.

7.  It’s Southern California.  How hot can it be?

8.  We’ve cut down the errors to a minimum.

9.  My daughter has a 15 game hitting streak.

10.  I’m so glad there’s no drama on this team!

Please feel free to add any other sentences that should not be stated before a big tournament.

10 Symptoms of the Pitcher’s Parent

Any combination of these symptoms means you could be the parent of a pitcher

  1.  Nausea, dizziness, loss of vision, diarrhea, stomach bleeding – these symptoms may become more intense later in the season or further into the bracket of the tournament
  2.  Severe fingernail loss – Parents of pitchers don’t always chew their fingernails.  But when they do, they prefer to chew them down to the nubs.
  3.  Uncontrolled pacing, gum chewing, sunflower seed eating, cigarette smoking or vaping – This is game day and you need to do something while worrying about your kid pitching hangover-2-1430838
  4.  You throw away nearly-new cleats because there’s a hole in the toe – You wish you knew a kid with the same size foot as your daughter’s, who pitches with the opposite hand.  That way you could split the cost of cleats.
  5. You have multiple bruises on your shins – Sometimes you can see the marks that the seams leave on your skin.  The bruising goes up when your child learns a new pitch.
  6. Consistent numbness in your left hand – Catching all those pitches has a side-effect.  But having feeling in your glove hand isn’t that important anyway.
  7. High cell phone data usage – You send frantic messages or emails to your child’s pitching coach to get analysis of what’s going wrong.  This chews up data like a teenager on that stupid lip-sync app that has thankfully become uncool.  worry-or-relief-1532767
  8. You feel your kid is responsible for winning or losing the game / You feel everyone else’s kid is responsible for winning or losing the game – Parents of pitchers can have one of these feelings or waffle back and forth between the two.  There’s no logic to it.  It’s purely emotional.
  9. You wish you could draw an ‘air’ strike zone for umpires – Why can’t they wear contact lenses with a rectangle to show the strike zone?
  10. You prefer sitting on a bucket instead of a chair – the lid is already shaped to your ass

Danielle O’Toole’s stunning recruiting experience and how she bounced back

College Softball Pitchers Share their Recruiting Stories

Pitching Coach Monica Fenton on Common Recruiting Questions

 

My Favorite CO Sparkler Memories

Janie Takeda-Reed was at Christopher Fields in Denver warming up for the Scrap Yard Fastpitch game.  The former Oregon and current Team USA Outfielder shared her best memories about being in Colorado for the Sparkler/Fireworks Tournament.

They weren’t about what happened on the softball field!

“When I Walked on Campus, I knew this is where I wanted to be”

   High School Senior Paige Barth shares her recruiting story.

Senior Paige Barth is headed to San Diego State University this fall.  The utility player who is a Utility Player and plays for Firecrackers Brashear in Southern California, talked about her recruiting experience.

 

Travel Coaches Weigh-In on Proposed Recruiting Changes

“Some kids know what they want and some kids get to college and still don’t know what to do.”

Travel Softball Coaches may have the best guess at what might happen if rules are changed by the NCAA when they vote on rules that seek to end early recruiting.   They are the facilitators of recruiting and often need to balance the needs of college coaches, their travel organizations, athletes and their families.  We asked what they thought of the proposed legislation to end early recruiting and what it could mean for travel softball.

Coaches Interviewed:  Mike Stith, Batbusters; Bruce Richardson, SoCal Athletics; Sean Brashear, Firecrackers;

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Firecrackers Coach Sean Brashear said the new legislation is a good idea.  He believes early recruiting takes away from development.  “Those years should be focused on the development of these girls as players and people,” he said.

Batbuster’s Coach Mike Stith also endorses the idea of ending early recruiting.  He believes there’s a 98% chance of a yes vote on the new rules.  He feels that early recruiting is hurting the sport.  “There’s been a huge decline in the level of coaching and development at the younger ages,” he said. “Parents are in a hurry to get in front of colleges.  They’re missing instruction time. These rules will benefit the sport from the grass roots.

But SoCal Athletics Coach Bruce Richardson is on the fence about the proposed rules.  “Who’s to say what’s the right age to be recruited?” he asked.  “Some kids know what they want and some kids get to college and they still don’t know what to do.”

Will it work to curb early recruiting?

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Richardson said he was skeptical about whether the new legislation would be effective or needed.  He believes there will likely be away to get around them.  “I have many conversations with coaches.  We can figure a way to get a message to everybody.  There’s ways around everything,” he said.  He also questioned the inclination to over-regulate the recruiting process.

Richardson also questioned the wisdom of allowing recruiting conversations in the sophomore year of high school.  “How is it ok to recruit a 15 year-old and not a 13 year-old?” he said. “And parents don’t really have to buy into all this recruiting stuff.”  He said it was the responsibility of the parents to make the decision with their daughter and not just say ‘It’s what my daughter wants’.

Stith also believes people will figure out ways to get around the rules.  But he also wants people not to lose perspective of what the rules mean.  “The number of schools and scholarships are a finite number,” he said, referring to the idea that top scholarships will still go to top players.

So how might travel softball change if the news rules are enacted?

Brashear expects there may be few showcase events for 12u and 14U players.  “I would like to see us have more time to practice and develop our team so we can prepare them for high school and college,” he said.

He also believes College Coaches will be able to make more informed decisions about the players they recruit since committing a 7th or 8th grader can be risky. “They’re banking on the fact that she’s going to continue to grow as an athlete, person and a student,” he said, referring to the idea that some players may peak early but their progress could level out in the high school years.

If the rule changes are enacted Richardson said there may be unexpected consequences that are anybody’s guess.  “Sometimes you have to let it sink in after rule changes to see how this would affect me or the our kids, he said. “It’s hard to judge until you live it a little bit.”

Stith believes one group clearly benefits.  “Some of the late bloomers are going to have a chance to compete,” he said.

NCAA Considers Ending Early Recruiting

The NCAA will vote on a proposal to end early recruiting in softball and most other sports.  Adopting the new rules would mean an end to the verbal commitment of seventh, eighth and ninth graders.  It’s a subject many college coaches have publicly and privately criticized but felt helpless to change because of intense competition.

NCAA’s Division 1 Council submitted three separate proposed legislation in early October.  Here’s a quick summary of the rules and the reason for the changes:

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  • Coaches would be prohibited from recruiting conversations with a prospect at a camp or clinic until Sept. 1 of their sophomore year (Proposal 2017-113).  — Rationale: Eliminates early recruiting opportunities
  • Colleges would be prohibited from providing game tickets to prospects before Sept. 1 of their sophomore year . (Proposal 2017-112) — Rationale: Slows the recruiting process and allows students to focus on academic and athletic success
  • Official visits would move up to Sept. 1 of the prospect’s junior year, instead of opening day of the senior year.  This change would align with the first day for recruiting phone calls and written correspondence. (Proposal 2017-111) —Rationale: Better aligns the decision-timeline of for student-athletes and college decision-making.

The proposed rules would put an end to the controversy of colleges verbally committing seventh, eighth and ninth graders, the most recent being the Florida Gators verbally committing 7th grader Keegan Rothrock from Whiteland Indiana, who was reported to throw a screwball at 66 mph, according to FloSoftball.  While many parents might be enthusiastic about early commitments of their daughters, many coaches have strong reservations.

Firecrackers Coach Sean Brashear likes the rule changes and feels that softball players committing at 7th and 8th grade is too young.  “This would allow for more player development as teams would be able to practice more and with the recruiting change more competitive game play as teams would not be in Showcase mode so early,” he said.

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Brashear said college coaches were under intense pressure, many of them not wanting to recruit extremely young players but forced to commit to stay competitive.   He’s also had conversations with college coaches who commented to him about recruits.  “In many cases they have to reteach them how to practice once they get to college since they haven’t had enough practice time after having spent all fall and summer playing on the recruiting tour,” said Brashear.

Some college coaches have declined comment on the subject to Softball Nation.  But in a recent interview, University of San Diego Pitching Coach and Team USA player Danielle O’Toole expressed her frustration with the early recruiting. “Now that I’m in this coaching position and I see eighth graders, I’m like, how am I supposed to judge this eighth grader and what they’re supposed to look like?” said O’Toole. “It’s definitely way to young and it’s unfortunate.  And I know a lot of the coaches think that.”

The proposal is a recommendation from the Division 1 Student-Athlete Experience Committee following a study of more than 15,000 recruited student-athletes Sept 2017.  The survey found that 40% of student-athletes in women’s basketball and softball reported their first recruiting contact in the ninth grade or earlier.

The survey also showed that student-athletes in almost every sport reported committing verbally to a school before official visit dates.  Most student-athletes also reported taking unofficial visits in their sophomore year or earlier.

These rules would not apply to football or basketball since they have already made changes to their recruiting model.

The Division I Council will vote on the proposals during the 2017-18 legislative cycle, which calls for voting to occur in April 2018, according to Michelle Brutlag Hosick, Associate Director, Public and Media Relations.  If adopted, all three proposals would be effective Aug. 1, 2018.

Introducing the College Softball Directory

Softball Nation is excited to unveil its College Softball Directory.

CLICK HERE FOR THE DIRECTORY

The web page was created to give players, coaches and parents an easy place to find information about college coaches, rosters and other information about their programs.  The directory provides a central place where you can look for college coaches and their contacts with a couple clicks.  It also provides easy access to links for other colleges in their conferences.

We created the directory so that parents and athletes could go to one web site and do research about colleges where they might want to go.  While directory does not list all of the conferences in Division I Softball, it has links to the most prominent softball programs in the country.

Be sure to bookmark the page to be able to refer to the site during those showcases.  Or find the emails of the college coaches of schools where athletes want to go.

If you don’t know what conference of the college of interest, simply enter the name of the school in the search bar and the link will appear.

We hope you find the directory useful!

Softball Standout Joins Team Mexico

 

Out of all the amazing softball players in the country, only a small group can be chosen for the the USA Junior Olympic and Olympic Teams.  For those who have excelled all their lives in the sport, that can be a difficult reality.   But for some, the dream of playing in the Olympics continues.  Eliyah Flores and her parents decided to tryout for another team.

 

 

 

 

Eliyah Flores plays for the much heralded Firecrackers Rico Team.  She tried out for the USA Junior Olympic team but unfortunately was not selected.  Her parents then asked the Mexico Softball team if they would let her tryout for the that team.

Her father Jimmy Flores said Mexico’s coaches knew who she was and were willing to give her a chance.  She was required to prove her Mexican ancestry.  She was accepted and played for the team against the SoCal All-Stars at Irvine, CA.

Eliyah is excited to play for Team Mexico since its part of her heritage, allows her to play at the international level and hopefully give her the chance to play in the Olympic Games in the future.

 

Coach Sean Brashear is Thankful for Trips to Del Taco

 

In our second of three segments with Firecrackers Coach Sean Brashear, we talk about his best advice to parents about paving the path to success.  He also talks about the fine line between pushing your kid and letting them push themselves.

Don’t Fear Failure. Embrace the Opportunity.

 

For many young softball players, we’re getting into the heart of the season.  Recreational leagues will soon have their tournaments, travel teams will try to qualify for National Tournaments and the eyes of college coaches will be looking for the talent they need to fill their future roster.

Parents, coaches and teammates have high expectations and hopes of glory.  All of this turns up the pressure on young ladies who aren’t even old enough to vote, or even drive.

In the first of our 3-part interview, Firecrackers Coach Sean Brashear  talks with Softball Nation about how softball players can prepare for the pressure of playing on a bigger stage.